Men, it's time to step your games up. Over half of all young women are unhappy with their sex lives, and you better believe that a lot of them have boyfriends. Often, this is because many men make the same few sex mistakes.
It isn't just hard for the ladies, however. Men want to feel like they're capable of pleasing their partners. If your partner clearly isn't enjoying the sex very much, you're not going to have fun either.
If you're worried about sex mistakes, you've come to the right place. This article will walk you through six common mistakes made, and show you the solutions.
It's a common stereotype that men aren't capable of finding a woman's clitoris, have little known edge of female anatomy, and fail to make women orgasm. It's a stereotype based in reality, however, because straight women don't have nearly as many orgasms as men, despite the fact that they can orgasm multiple times in a row.
The disparity can be explained by this simple fact: women generally don't orgasm through penetrative sex, and men do. When all men know how to sexually provide is penetration, they run into situations where their partners don't orgasm.
To prevent this, make sure you stimulate your partner with your hand or your mouth. It isn't as hard as it sounds. Have your partner walk you through what they want the first few times, and you'll surely please her more than you would have otherwise.
Having a lot of sexual conquests doesn't mean you're particularly good at sex. Sometimes, overconfidence leads to poor performance.
No matter how many ladies you've been with, it's never safe to assume you know it all. Every person has different needs, and while your experience can carry you through the motions of sex, you can't systematically apply one set of maneuvers to every lover.
That's why it's best to approach sex as an art or a science. Take every new lover, and every new sexual encounter, as an opportunity to try new things.
Ask her what she wants, so you can better satisfy her. There's nothing un-sexy about communication about sex. What might seem awkward in the moment can save you many moments of awkwardness when you just can't seem to please her right.
Let's face, it sometimes your body doesn't want to go in the same direction that your mind does. If you take that hot date home and she wants to seal the deal with you, but things down there just aren't up for it, you could be in hot water. At this stage many men give up and settle for not satisfying their partners, making them go home hot and bothered.
However, there are solutions out there. If you need help, there's no shame in seeking it. (That's a common theme throughout this list; shame can only lead to your partner not getting satisfied.)
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Let's face it, fellas, a lot of women are kinky. Whereas certain things, such as BDSM, roleplay, rough sex, and threesomes, are still taboo, they're a lot more common than they used to be. Just because she's a lady — even if she's a very refined lady — doesn't mean she wants to be treated like a porcelain doll.
If you suspect that the sex you're giving her is boring her, ask her what she wants. She might surprise you with how bold and stimulating her fantasies are. You may find that you have many of the same fantasies yourself.
The world of kinks is not as small as it used to be. If you have certain proclivities, and you and your partner are already sexually comfortable with each other, explain to her some of the things you're into. She may be into similar things or be willing to try them.
As always, make sure you have her enthusiastic consent before you try anything.
In this modern-day and age of internet meetings, sexting, quick meetups, and instant sex, much of the art of seduction has been lost. This might be okay for some men, after all, after they orgasm, they're generally pretty satisfying. However, this is very frustrating for the women in the world, who need a little more.
You'll stand out from the other men by taking things slowly and putting more thought into seduction. Consider how you can use your scenery when kissing, the types of foreplay she likes, how best to stimulate nipples, and where she likes to be teased, to guarantee engaging sex.
The rest of the list has stayed classy and subtle. This inclusion will have to get a little graphic, but hear us out.
Many men hear the term "fingering" and think it refers to taking two fingers and pumping them away inside of a woman's vagina like a jackhammer. This is not only redundant — that's what you have a penis for — but not comfortable for many women. Use your fingers to stimulate a woman's clitoris, and explore different areas of her vagina, don't just pump away.
Nobody's perfect; however, when over half of all young women aren't satisfied sexually. . . there's a problem. If men learn to fix these six simple sex mistakes, they're far more likely to stimulate their partners and have great sex.
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